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Question by tony: How long do parents let thier family weep when laying them down for bed before letting them out of thier crib?
My son doesn’t like to lay down at night. He fights to stay awake and sometimes he’s up until 11pm! (He’s 14 months ancient) I can’t bear to hear him weep when I lay him down and often times go and get him with about 2 minutes. How long should I let him weep before I go get him because I need to get him in the habbit of falling asleep around 9pm.
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10 minutes. he’s crying all night because he KNOWS you’ll come in,
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If I know here is nothing incorrect, no fever, no aches and pains (If I reckon here might be i give some tylenol) and I know he’s not wet or hungry I leave him to weep until he falls asleep. But only when I have first tried to cool him without picking him up. If he wont cool down even with me patting his back, or sitting by his bed, or shushhhing him then he’s on his own to throw that fit- because thats all it is. A fit about not wanting to go to bed.
Our son is now nearly three and will sleep any where in any situation without an issue. He’s learned very well not only how to sleep but how and when to delight in it.
It depends. In your case your son is crying because he knows you’ll come in with two minutes to get him. If I were in that situation I would let him weep until he fell asleep. Just go in the room, make sure he is lying down in his bed, and then leave. Don’t say anything, just leave. He’ll get the thought with a while. It may be hard but he’s just manipulating you now and causing you stress of having him up until 11. Once you set a bedtime with him and he realizes it is time for bed and that you are not going to get him, he’ll learn to go to bed when you want him to go to bed.
You have to be firm. He won’t like you any less if you do that, so don’t worry. You just need to get a set schedule in place.
Of way if here was a touch incorrect I wouldn’t let them lie alone just crying. But your son is just having a fit because he doesn’t want to go to bed. So he needs to weep until he sleeps.
At about 7:30 you should have an established routine of charitable a bath, getting ready for bed and reading to him for a 1/2 hour. It will take awhile but once it becomes a pattern it SHOULD be simple to have him go to bed by 8/8:30. I say should because some modest people are just night owls and will hang out until you go to bed. When you are reading to him makes sure that he has a Lovey-blankie, stuffed animal or toy-to keep him company while he sleeps. Say excellent night to him and his lovey so that he knows that he is not alone at bedtime.
Ferberize him!!!
http://www.babycenter.com/0_the-ferber-method-demystified_7755.bc
if you know he is fighting sleep and you know that it is bed time DONT GO BACK IN THERE. let him weep it out. he needs to know that sleep is excellent and that you wont give in to his temper irritability. thats what it is. a tantrum. can you imagine 5 years from now if you keep letting him do this and you try to tell him no? can you imagine that behavior in 10 years? how about 15 years? stop the irritability now. let him weep it out. its time for bed. no questions. let him know you mean business. show your authority now and let him know that what YOU say goes. and if you say time for bed it is time for bed.
You just have to be consistent. Each night, make sure he’s not hungry or in any pain and has a clean diaper. Then place him to bed. Give him a hug and kiss, say excellent night and lay him down. Then leave the room. He’s gonna weep, but you have tell yourself here’s nothing incorrect. If you can’t stand the crying, place on some headset. With a few nights of crying himself to sleep, he’ll figure it’s a waste of time anymore and crying’s not gonna get you back in his room. He’ll realize it’s simpler to just go to sleep than to weep all night. Excellent luck!
With all do respect but you are sending your child mixed messages… you first place him in his crib and he cries for about 2 minutes then you go get him out. Your son doesn’t know or know why you do this. As a matter of fact, he has you wrapped around his finger. He knows that crying equals “pick me up, mommy hold me.” If you want to teach him to fall as sleep by 9p you need to be CONSISTENT with your method meaning don’t pick him up. Yes, he will weep for 10-15 minutes maybe more since he’s used to having you pick him up with 2 minutes of crying but just reassure him by patting/roughness his back that he’ll be OK but don’ pick him up. With each night that you practice this method he will weep less and eventually he’ll know that once he’s place in his crib it’s time for bedtime/naptime.
If you influence to try this method I suggest you initiation at 8p so that you have an hour to help him ‘transition’ into this new routine.
Excellent luck.
I never let my baby out of the crib. That’s just charitable in. I use the ferber method when my lo doesn’t want to go down. I initiation with letting her weep for three minutes. I go in and I rub her back for a sec and tell her mommy likes her and leave. She usually cries harder. Then I wait 5 minutes, I go in and do the same thing. Then 10 minutes, do the same thing, then 15 minutes. Usually she is asleep before her 10 mins is up I’ve never had to go in with the 10 min mark. Excellent luck.
In my opinion, crying is a form of interaction. Your child, for the first nine months of his life was absolutely apart of you. My sister conceded her family on her back until they fell asleep or parented them to sleep.
It depends on the weep ( if it’s sort of a bone idle half-asleep weep or a screaming ) and also if she is fed, dry etc. Lately she has been teething and will weep a modest ( not screaming ) so I will leave her and she’s back asleep within 5 minutes. I don’t let it go past the ten minute mark & usually all thats incorrect is she dropped her sucky out of the crib or she wants a quick sip of her bottle. She sometimes fights sleep and needs to be laid down and she will weep for a few minutes but with that she’s right asleep.
You son has you trained.
You need to let him weep for about an hour, seriously. Obviously check on him every 10 minutes but you need to go in and tell him that you will not take him out of bed and it is time to sleep. He is ancient enough to know. I had to do it when my son was 6 months and now he is a perfect sleeper.
If he isn’t tired until 11 is it that he is sleeping too much during the day, how long does he sleep during the day. Toddlers are suppose to get roughly 14 hrs a day, if you want him to sleep 12hrs at night he should only have 2 hrs worth of naps